Sunday, April 26, 2009

“Who’s At Your Table?”

Mark 6:30-44

Reverend Susan Southall

Minister of Discipleship

 

            This is one of the most well-known of all of Jesus’ miracle stories.  It is also one of the few miracle stories that is told in all four of the gospels.  There must be a very important discipleship lesson for us to be found in these words!   Since this is United Methodist Women’s Sunday, I decided to focus in on our “theme” for this year – “Who’s At Your Table?” and see how that theme might provide a starting point for us to view this scripture passage.  The first thing we must see in this passage is that it is about coming together around a “table” with others.  In this account, there was not a literal table but we do see Jesus calling the people to come together in groups – perhaps in a large circle – so each group so they could be fed.  You might think, “well, that only makes sense to put the people into groups to help facilitate the passing around of food.”  But, this actually goes much deeper than just making things “easy to handle.”  There is deep theological significance to sitting together and sharing a meal with others.  In the Middle East in Jesus’ day, as it still is today, sharing a meal with someone means that you are also sharing in their life.  You are making a commitment to “be there for them” – in other words you have become like family sitting down together at that table.  So, in asking the people of this large crowd to sit down together in groups, he was asking them to be “family” with each other.  He was asking them to be a part of each other’s lives, to look after each other like you look after members of your family, to listen to each other’s stories, to carry each other’s burdens.

Think for a moment about the last time you were in a large crowd…..did you know all the people around you?  Did you WANT to know all the people around you??  What would it be like if you were suddenly asked to sit down with these folks and get to know them and share in their lives?  Think about  what it would mean to “come to the table” with others beyond our usual “table companions.”  I believe that is exactly what Jesus intended that late afternoon – to bring people together in a new way.   Are you ready to see some new faces around your “table”?

The next thing that happened once the people were in groups was that the disciples took inventory of what they had available and offered it to Jesus to help feed the groups.  In John’s version of the story, it is a young boy who offers up the 5 loaves and 2 fish.  No matter where it came from, it  certainly didn’t seem like much at all, but it was offered to help the cause.  Jesus accepts the “small gifts” and gives thanks to God for their availability.  And, amazingly, they are enough, enough to feed all those present that day at that moment in time.  Now here’s a valuable lesson for us to learn…..God doesn’t ask for us to give more than we have.  However, God does ask us to give what we do have to help – even if it seems like it is too small and doesn’t begin to solve the big problem at hand.  Anyone who has ever worked on a missions trip or a missions project of any kind knows that God is still in the miracle business!  Any time we are willing to come together in community with others and offer up what we have, we end up carrying away baskets full of blessings!! 

This is the picture we need to keep in our minds when we hear about the many great needs in our society and around the world.  Often we see the need and we think we can’t begin to solve that problem so we just give up – we walk away from the “table” so we won’t have to deal with the situation.  United Methodist Women have a long history of “coming to the table” and offering up what we can so God can perform miracles.  There are so many stories of how God has taken the faithfulness of women and men and multiplied the blessings for all involved.  We would like to share three examples with you this morning and invite you to consider joining the UMW at these particular “tables.”  Outside the sanctuary around in the Great Hall we have setup a long table which gives you information about these three missions opportunities.  We pray you will come to the table and see how God might be calling you to offer up your “loaves and fishes.”

The first project at our UMW table has been going on since the end of WWII, but some of our women here at First Church have developed a recent passion for this cause.  Several of us had the marvelous opportunity back in January to visit the UMCOR (United Methodist Committee On Relief) warehouse depot in Baldwin, LA.  While we were there we learned about the many ways that UMCOR provides emergency relief supplies to thousands of families and especially to women and children in times of need.  One of the ways they offer assistance is by providing layette kits to new mothers who do not have the basic supplies necessary to look after their newborn babies.  Along with food supplies, which are given out through other programs, the layette kit gives some basic diapers and clothing to help the child stay safe and warm. 

Whether these children have just survived a hurricane or earthquake or perhaps they are living in a desert refugee camp, there are many times and places where mothers and babies need our help.  We received material from UMCOR for us to help sew some of the clothing and blankets they need.  They also provided us with knitting and crochet patterns to make the simple little sweaters.  Our own Thom Whitaker has already come to this table and currently holds the record for the most sweaters completed!!  I have committed to get at least one sweater done before the end of May.  Perhaps you would be willing to come to this table, do your small part, and see what miracles God may perform in these new lives.

Over two decades before UMCOR was ever formed there were Methodist women right here in Oklahoma who saw a need to help provide simple, safe housing for the most desperate families in our state.  These women opened “Wesley House” in Oklahoma City.  And, it is still in operation today almost 90 years after those women first had their vision.  Later when the Dust Bowl ravaged Oklahoma and the Great Depression devastated the nation, Methodist women in Oklahoma again saw a great need and opened The Bethlehem Center to provide health care services, nutritional counseling and hand-made infant clothing for families in poverty.

These two programs merged in the late 1960’s and formed Neighborhood Services Organization.  Today NSO has four facilities that provide housing or transitional living for people with special needs including: single adults with mental illness, single males between 18-22, pregnant women or women with a child under 5 years old, and needy families with 2 or more children.  Along with these housing facilities NSO also provides free or low cost Health services and rental assistance (when funds are available).  Can you imagine what it must be like for these individuals or families to have a safe, clean place to live and get back on their feet?  Last year the Oklahoma UMW provided over $20,000 in gift cards to help these people have something to put on their tables or in their closets --- that’s a lot of loaves and fish!!

Another place that is close to the heart of many UMW here in Oklahoma and especially to several of us here at FUMC is the Cookson Hills Center.  This mission is located just outside Tallequah, OK and ministers primarily to the Native American People in rural Oklahoma.  Consider this for just a moment.  The people being served by this important mission were first forced away from their “tables”/homes and moved to this land known then as the Indian Territory.  Then when settlers wanted that land, these people were forced to move again farther into the territory.  Now today the land that was given to them has become a most expensive place to live because the area around Lake Tenkiller has become a resort area.  As you well know if you have ever vacationed in a resort area, the food and local supply stores have inflated prices meant for the tourists.  However, when you live in that area on a fixed income or very limited funds, you are also forced to pay these high prices.

Cookson Hills provides a thrift store, food pantry, as well as craft and gardening co-ops (with the supplies/seeds provided) to help the local people earn a little money to support their families.  They also provide educational and vocational training opportunities.  Imagine if you can being a mother with young children and no way to feed or clothe them.  Then you hear about Cookson Hills.  They meet new mothers like this every day.  One story that really touched my heart was the day a mother arrived at Cookson Hills because she had heard that she could get school supplies for her children.  While she was there she happened to see the food pantry.  When she was told she could use the pantry to get a few things, her young daughter began to cry with joy because she was so excited to have a meal that day.  The previous night they had had salad dressing for dinner!!  Salad dressing for dinner….surely if we all bring what we have to the table everyone will have more than that to eat!!

I would like to close with the famous table parable you may have heard before, but I never tire of the message it brings.  Once upon a time a man (I’m going to make it a woman since it is UMW Sunday!) died.  She was met by St. Peter who told her she had a choice to make about where she wanted to spend eternity.  First, he led her to a door and as they entered the room she smelled the most wonderfully fragrant stew.  She noticed that the stew pot was sitting in the middle of a big table but all around the table were pale, hungry looking folks.  They each had a spoon with a very long handle to reach into the pot.  She asked St. Peter, “why are these people so sad and so malnourished with such a lovely stew sitting before them?”  He replied, “well, you see, this is hell. And, all these people are hungry because their spoons will reach into the pot, but they only consider trying to feed themselves.  The spoons are too long to reach back into their own mouths.  So, they are all hungry and unsatisfied.”  The woman cried, “I don’t want to stay here.  Is there another place?”

Next St. Peter took her to another door and as he opened the door she could hear laughter and singing.  She again smelled the wonderful stew and saw the stew pot sitting in the middle of a big table.  These people also had long handled spoons.  But, they had learned to dip their spoon into the pot and then feed someone else sitting across the table from them.  Everyone was feeding and being fed.  “This,” said St. Peter, “is heaven!”

Heaven or hell – it’s all about how you approach the table.  What will it be for you?  Are you ready to join others at the table – even those you don’t know yet?  Are you ready to bring whatever you have to that table and share it so God can work a miracle??  I’m hungry for that kind of meal myself….how about you?